The birth of the first transforms the lives of the couple.
A baby takes up more space than you can imagine, and that environment refers, above all, the emotional world of the couple, no longer appears to be two and a family structure more complex. When it reaches this point is very important to know to care for the relationship.
Parents need to prepare for the arrival of the new member does not unbalance the relationship.
There is nothing more momentous for men and women the experience of parenting. The birth of first child, more desirable than has been transforming the lives of couples and usually puts the stability of the couple to the test.
at this stage are often Some men complain of the lack of attention they receive from their partner, and you hear phrases like "You're always tired," "is not the same as before" if I imagine this would be so better not do it "" and you do not like going out "among others.
These are simple expressions of dissatisfaction which presents the man with an alleged substitution of a partner, which he understands has become a "full-time mom"
SEARCH SOLUTIONS
In this type of crisis, to find solutions where both feel committed to change and want to again resume the engagement, where an important part is to be connected as a couple, not just as parents.
When one of them feels the other is neglecting its role of partner, you should discuss it and not waiting to explode.
TIP: Never assume that the other has to understand what happens, every head is different.
RULE: should be discussed only when both are in the position to do so.
RECIPROCITY: not demand a better quality of married life without knowing what can be done to achieve this.
BREAK: When one of the two feel worn out, take a few hours to make their ideas clear and then resume your life.
SHARE
Another measure that helps the couple in this new role is to split up chores and management of children, everything must not be left to the woman, the man involved feel the effort should be made to keep things running well.
have to do recreational activities together, like watching a movie, cook, get a massage, bathing together, learn to share time even within the home. Addition, each day say words full of positivity and love.
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