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November 25 is International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Woman ... and the first thing that usually springs to mind when thinking about the mistreatment of women is physical, but there is another abuse that many women can come to experience psychological abuse and / or emotional.
What is it? How often is it? How do you identify?

What is psychological abuse / emotional?

psychological or emotional abuse involves any behavior, verbal or nonverbal, which negatively impacts the emotional and psychological well-being of another person.

How often is it?

There are cases of psychological abuse / emotional at weddings, intimate partners, parents and children to the elderly, and usually where there is a difference in power.

How I can identify if me is happening to me?

The person who abuses you can:
-often ignore your feelings. "I ridicules
do you most value, as in your beliefs, gender, sexuality, ability, age, appearance, or sexual orientation.
"You ridiculed or insulted by your religion, race, family, social class, or language.
-Abstain to approve what you do, show appreciation, or affection.
-Constantly criticizes you, insults you and you scream.
"You humiliated in private or in public.
"He refuses to socialize with you.
"It lets you work, control the money, and makes all decisions. "Try
ensure that you see or talk with family and friends.
-often threaten to leave or telling you to leave.
"I manipulated with lies and contradictions.
Behaves-threatening.
-Use facial expressions or body positions to intimidate.

"I accused her of infidelity.
-Uses sexualized language.
-verbal abuse of children or household pets.
In response to this, you may feel:
-Buster.
-Dependent abuser.
-Confused.
-Sad.
-Angry.
-Isolated.
"Without control of your own life.

What can be some possible causes?

A person may abuse another to claim control. It's possible they feel angry and helpless as his anger is directed to someone close or less power over them, as well as family members. Sometimes they were abused in childhood, but not always thus become abusers. It may also be the result of traditional male-female roles, where women are perceived as primarily property and must obey their parents, and later to their partners. If there are physical or sexual abuse, emotional abuse then necessarily also There is emotional abuse. In some countries the psychological abuse / emotional stress can be considered a crime of violence.

How I can deal with it?

If you are unsure of being abused, talk with friends or relatives that you feel are emotional support and fully trusted. Remember
as very possibly you feel dependent on the abuser, you might bother and tend to lose confidence in the people trying to help.
Remind yourself that you are entitled to a life free of abuse . Try
give positive messages, they give you strength, such as "I am a good person and deserve to be treated as such."
Participates in activities that you enjoy, encourage and strengthen you.
Ask yourself what would you say to a friend who passed through the same situation.
If you depend on the economy of your abuser, trying to get a job. You may even want to consider creating a separate bank account and save money if the abuse is growing more. Always be prepared
phone numbers and money saved if you leave suddenly.

How do I know if I need help?

can need help if:

-Doubts of your own lawsuit or you wonder if you're crazy.
"You're afraid of your partner and express your opinions less frequently, and less freedom.
"You're afraid of others, and tend to see them less frequently.
"You take your time to carefully assess the mood of your partner before you try a topic.

"You have to be careful when you're with other people, and tend to be hypervigilant for their presence.

-Pides permission to spend money, take classes, or out with friends.
"You've lost confidence in your abilities, you become depressed, you feel trapped and powerless.
-discover that your children are being adversely affected by abuse. For example, isolate, become aggressive, have nightmares, or do poorly in school.

NOT JUST HIT BATTER, BATTER IS CAUSE ANY KIND OF DAMAGE TO A PERSON, whether physical or emotional, on occasion A humiliation HURTS MORE THAN A COUP AND PSYCHOLOGICAL CAUSES DAMAGE IN A PERSON BEING IGNORED, belittles, insults, WHICH MAY NOT HAVE THE FREEDOM TO EXPRESS ANYTHING BY FEAR REACTION "INAPPROPRIATE" TO ANOTHER PERSON, THAT LEAVES MORE DAMAGE TRACKS SOMETIMES THAT CAN CAUSE ANY DAMAGE A physical blow. THE PERSON TO GET A FEEL THAT NOTHING IS DOING WELL, BECAUSE NO ONE EVER ANYTHING YOU RATE THE FEELING SOMEONE OTHER THAN THE ONE PERSON THAT USE Called "You're an idiot" "YOU DO NOT good for nothing" ES EMOTIONAL ABUSE PART OF MANY PEOPLE WHO ARE VICTIMS, mostly women, of their own COUPLES, OR CHILDREN OF THEIR OWN PARENTS AFTER WHICH TRIGGERS THE PHYSICAL ABUSE, THEN AND NOW FOR THE ABUSED PERSON IS SO TIRED AS LOW AS CONFUSED OFTEN NOT DO ANYTHING TO THIS NEW ABUSE.

when a person feels who is being abused EMOTIONALLY TO HELP, BUT OVER ALL TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HAPPENS AND REMEMBER THAT NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO insult, humiliate, yell or make you sick.