Muchas parejas por no aceptar las diferencias entre ambos prefieren lastimarse con comportamientos o comentarios que lleven al otro a sentirse inferiores. Es bien cierto que muchas veces dentro de la danza de la pareja, encontramos conductas y pensamientos que no son afines a nuestros criterios. Sucede que a veces tenemos tantas ansias de amor que vemos en el otro lo que imaginamos, y creemos que nos enamoramos verdaderamente when in reality, we are not seeing the other but our wish that the other is the person we crave. Over time, we see and find the real one, and we realize that we had fallen in love with our own projections.
That wonderful time of being in love is loaded with lots of intrigue, fantasy, mystery, passion, complicity, you just do not see the imperfections of our partner and provided the other person gives evidence of his nature, but we so full of euphoria that we do not perceive that what strikes us as being so different to what we're used to seeing, is what then took us to feel cheated.
is why everyone at some point we have listened to our partners that we are no longer shadows as we were at the beginning of the relationship.
"sometimes invent LOVE AND SUFFER BECAUSE THEN DROPPED THE FANTASIA"
The problem really arises when we insist that the other person back to the way it was before and we all the romance that only lives in the first stage of the relationship.
All this is not an illusion, because true love is full of imperfections, sacrifice, dedication and respect.
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