Aletha Solter (taken from the book: my baby understands everything).
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Tuesday February 26, 2008
Breastfeeding WILD
De www.cuatroenlacama.com
The majority of mothers consulting for breastfeeding difficulties are concerned to know how to do things properly, rather than seeking the inner silence, the deep roots, and traces of femininity in the male support , in the family or community that support the meeting with his personal essence.
Breastfeeding is genuine manifestation of our earthly aspects, wild, phylogenetic. To nurse should spend most of the time naked, no long to our young, immersed in a time beyond time, without intellect or development of thoughts, without anything or defend anyone, but only immersed in an imaginary space, invisible to others. That's
feeding. Emerge is to leave our ancestral places forgotten or denied, our animal instincts that come without imagining that nested within. And go with the surprise of seeing our babies lick, smell the freshness of her blood, dripping from a body and the other, body fluids become dancers.
Breastfeeding is rid of the lies we have told the whole life on who we are or who should be. It is to be messy, powerful, hungry, like wolves, lions, and tigers, and kangaroos, like cats. Closely related to other mammalian species in their total adherence to the rearing, neglecting the rest of the community, but millimeter responsive to the needs of the newborn.
delighted with the trick, trying to recognize that we were the ones that we can, and reconnect with what is to be sublime. It is a mystical experience if we allow ourselves to be so.
This is all that is needed in order to nurse a child. Or methods, or schedule, or advice, or watches, or courses. But I do support, containment and trust of others (husband, network of women, society, social) to be one more than ever. Only allowed to be what we want, do what you want, and let carried away by the madness of the wild.
This is possible if you understand the psychology of women includes this deep attachment to the mother earth, that being one with nature is intrinsic to the essential being of women, and that if this aspect is not evident, the breastfeeding just does not flow. We are not so different from the rivers, volcanoes, forests. It is only necessary to preserve them from attack.
Women who wish to breastfeed we are challenged to not excessively away from our savage instincts. We tend to think, read books, childcare and so lose the axis between many tips called "professionals."
There is an idea that runs through and disables animality of breastfeeding, and is the insistence that the mother is separated from the baby's body. Contrary to what is involved, the baby should be carried by the mother all the time, even and especially when you sleep. The physical separation to which we submit as a dyad hinders the flow of breastfeeding. Western babies sleep in the bassinet or stroller, or too many hours in their cribs. This attitude simply undermines breastfeeding. Because breastfeeding is a constant activity and energy body. It's like a river that will not stop flowing, if it blocks, diverts its flow.
Breastfeeding is having a baby with upa, as long as possible. It's body is silent, connection to the underworld is invisible, emotional fusion is madness.
Yes, you have to get a little crazy for feeding. Laura Gutman
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